Bragallot wrote: If people start crying when you should be making them cum, you're doing it wrong.
Disagree. Many ladies have strong emotional response in connection to orgasms, whether before, during, or after.
Your opinion on this matter says a lot about your level of experience.
Maybe some men have those reactions too, now that I think of it. My lack of knowledge in this area probably says something about my own level of experience.